Sincerely
The sign-off adverb — and the one word that certifies the speaker rather than the claim. Why it attaches to verbs and not objects, Yours sincerely vs Yours faithfully, why “I sincerely hope” is often a threat, sincerest apologies, and a quiz.
Overview
Sincerely certifies the person speaking. Where genuinely stamps a thing as real ("genuinely free", "genuinely broken"), sincerely stamps the speaker's intention as real: I sincerely hope, I sincerely apologise, I sincerely doubt it.
That difference explains almost everything about how the word behaves. Objects can't be sincere. Only people can — so sincerely lives on verbs of feeling and speech, and it refuses to sit in front of ordinary adjectives.
Most learners meet it first at the bottom of a letter, where it has been worn smooth of meaning. That's the least interesting thing it does, but the most likely to get marked wrong.
- Letter sign-off (fixed formula) → Yours sincerely · Yours faithfully · Best regards
- I really mean this → truly · genuinely · honestly
- Without pretence (manner) → openly · honestly · in good faith
The key insight
Compare:
- "It's genuinely free." → the freeness is real. No catch.
- "It's sincerely free." ❌ → not English. A price can't have an inner life.
- "I sincerely hope it's free." ✅ → my hoping is real.
The test: can you put I mean it in front of a person? Sincerely needs a human subject doing something — hoping, doubting, apologising, believing, thanking. If there's no person behind the word, you want genuinely.
- genuinely = "this thing is real."
- sincerely = "I mean this."
This is also why sincerely pairs with speech acts — apologies, thanks, condolences, promises — the things you can perform hollowly. The word exists to say: not this time.
Parts of speech
- sincere — adjective: "a sincere apology", "she seemed sincere"
- sincerely — adverb: "I sincerely hope", "Yours sincerely"
- sincerity — noun, and unlike genuineness it's a completely normal word: "I don't doubt his sincerity"
- insincere · insincerely · insincerity — all live, all common. (There is no ungenuine.)
There is no verb.
- ❌ "Please accept my sincerely apologies." → ✅ "my sincere apologies"
- ❌ "He apologised very sincere." → ✅ "He apologised very sincerely."
Rule of thumb: before a noun → sincere. Before a verb → sincerely.
And one extra rule genuine doesn't have: sincere only describes people and the things people produce — an apology, an offer, an interest, a question, an effort, a smile. ❌ "a sincere bug", ❌ "a sincere discount".
The sign-off
= Yours sincerely · Yours faithfully · Best regards
This is a fixed formula, not a claim. Nobody reading Sincerely, believes anything about your inner state. Getting it right is about convention, not meaning.
- "Yours sincerely, Anna Petrenko" (British, named recipient)
- "Sincerely, Anna Petrenko" (American, any recipient)
- "Yours faithfully" (British, when you opened with "Dear Sir or Madam")
- Opened with a name ("Dear Ms Petrenko") → close with Yours sincerely
- Opened with no name ("Dear Sir or Madam") → close with Yours faithfully
Americans don't use faithfully at all — Sincerely, covers both. American English also allows Sincerely yours and Yours truly; British English wants Yours sincerely in that order.
- Capitalise the first word only: "Yours sincerely," ✅ / "Yours Sincerely," ❌
- Always followed by a comma, then your name on the next line.
- "Very sincerely yours" is a real American fossil, but it reads like 1955. Don't.
A ladder from warm to cold: Thanks → Best → Best regards → Kind regards → Regards → Sincerely → Yours faithfully.
Sincerely sits near the formal end. In a first email to a new client, it's safe. In the fourteenth message of a Slack-adjacent thread, it lands as distance — and after a disagreement, it can read as sarcasm. Most working email settles on Best or Thanks.
I really mean this
= truly · genuinely · honestly
The adverb doing actual work, always in front of a verb.
- "I sincerely apologise for the delay."
- "I sincerely hope this is the last time we redo it."
- "We sincerely regret any inconvenience."
- "I sincerely doubt that's the cause."
- "I sincerely appreciate you flagging it early."
In business writing it rarely means warmth. Compare:
- "I hope we can resolve this." → neutral.
- "I really hope we can resolve this." → warm, human.
- "I sincerely hope we can resolve this." → formal, and usually pointed.
The formality signals that the relationship has moved to the record. Native speakers hear it. Use it when you want that.
Without pretence
= openly · honestly · in good faith
The manner reading: describing how someone acted, not adding force to your own claim. It usually comes after the verb.
- "She spoke sincerely, and people believed her."
- "He sincerely believed the tests were passing." (he was wrong, not lying)
- "I think the offer was made sincerely."
- "a sincerely held belief" (fixed phrase, mostly legal)
That third-person use is the one that separates being mistaken from being dishonest — a distinction worth having in a postmortem.
Grammar
- ❌ "Sincerely, I have no idea." → ✅ "Honestly, I have no idea." Sincerely does not open a sentence in English, even though sinceramente / sincèrement / щиро кажучи do exactly that in other languages. At the front of a sentence, English hears a letter, not an adverb.
- ❌ "That's sincerely useful." → ✅ "That's genuinely useful."
- ❌ "Sincerely thanks." → ✅ "Thank you sincerely." / "With sincere thanks."
- ❌ "I'm very sincerely sorry." → ✅ "I'm sincerely sorry." / "I'm very sorry."
The verbs it actually lives on
hope · doubt · believe · apologise · regret · thank · appreciate · mean · wish · trust
If your verb isn't on a list like this, you probably want really or genuinely.
The adjectives it accepts
Only feelings belonging to the speaker: sorry · grateful · apologetic · remorseful.
"I'm sincerely grateful" ✅ · "I'm sincerely sorry" ✅ · "sincerely fast" ❌ · "sincerely broken" ❌
Position
Before the verb, for the speech-act sense:
- "I sincerely apologise." ✅
- "We sincerely regret the outage." ✅
After the verb, for the manner sense:
- "He answered sincerely." ✅
- "It was meant sincerely." ✅
At the front — only as a sign-off. ❌ "Sincerely, don't merge this yet."
Degrees
The adverb doesn't take modifiers in modern prose — no very sincerely, no quite sincerely. But the adjective keeps its superlative in fixed phrases:
- "my sincerest apologies" ✅
- "our sincerest condolences" ✅
Negatives
- "That apology wasn't sincere." (adjective)
- "He apologised, but not sincerely."
- "I sincerely doubt it." — note this is a negative in meaning: it's a firm, dry no. Far more common in speech than "I sincerely hope."
sincerely vs its neighbours
- truly — "I'm truly sorry." The nearest neighbour. Warmer, less official; Yours truly is an American sign-off.
- really — "I really hope so." What people actually say out loud. Sincerely in casual speech sounds like you're reading from a card.
- honestly — flags candour and can open a sentence, which sincerely can't. "Honestly, it's not ready."
- genuinely — certifies things, not speakers. "Genuinely good catch" ✅ / "Sincerely good catch" ❌
- earnestly — sincere plus visible effort, and slightly literary. It can sound faintly comic: "he earnestly explained the rules of chess."
- wholeheartedly — sincere plus full commitment: "I wholeheartedly agree." Stronger, and only for agreement, support, recommendation.
- in good faith — the contractual sibling: "the offer was made in good faith."
- really — everyday. "I really hope so."
- honestly — flags candour. "Honestly, it's not ready."
- genuinely — certifies the thing. "Genuinely impressed."
- truly — warm, slightly literary. "Truly grateful."
- sincerely — formal, ceremonial. "I sincerely apologise."
- respectfully — official, hierarchical. "Respectfully submitted."
Programming & code review
Worth saying plainly: *you will almost never write sincerely in a pull request. The word for review comments is genuinely. Where sincerely* does appear in technical work, it's in the moments that leave the codebase — incidents, clients, formal apologies.
- "I sincerely apologise for the outage — the postmortem is attached."
- "I sincerely doubt this is a race condition; the logs point at the retry loop."
- "He sincerely believed the migration had run. The logs say otherwise."
- "We sincerely regret that the export was unavailable for six hours."
- ❌ "Sincerely good catch." → ✅ "Genuinely good catch."
Rough rule: if it's going in a PR comment, use genuinely. If it's going to someone who pays the invoice, sincerely is available.
Working life
- "I sincerely apologise — that estimate was mine and it was wrong."
- "I sincerely appreciate the flexibility on the deadline."
- "I sincerely hope we can agree on scope before the next sprint." (polite pressure)
- "We sincerely regret the delay and have credited your account."
- "Yours sincerely," (first email to a new client; switch to "Best" by the third)
Life with your partner
Mostly the wrong register — which is exactly why it turns up as a joke.
- "I sincerely apologise for the state of the fridge." (mock-formal, affectionate)
- "I sincerely doubt he'll be on time." (dry, completely natural)
- "I sincerely hope you're not planning to cook that again." (teasing)
For real sincerity at home, English reaches for genuinely or really: "I genuinely forgot", "I really am sorry." Say "I sincerely apologise" to your partner and it sounds like a form letter — which, half the time, is the joke.
Everyday life
- Doubt: "I sincerely doubt it." (by far the most common spoken use)
- Cards: "Our sincerest condolences." / "With sincere thanks."
- Speeches: "I want to thank all of you, sincerely."
- Weather: "I sincerely hope this is the last cold week." (Chișinău, March, said through gritted teeth)
- Judging people: "Was she being sincere?" (adjective — the natural way to ask)
Client phrases to steal
- "I sincerely apologise for the delay — here's exactly where things stand."
- "I sincerely appreciate your patience while we sorted this out."
- "We sincerely regret the disruption and have taken the following steps…"
- "I sincerely hope we can find a version of this that works for both of us."
- "Yours sincerely," (named recipient, first contact, British client)
- "Sincerely," (named recipient, first contact, American client)
Register & mnemonic
Formal, cool, ceremonial. It's a suit. Wear it for apologies, condolences, contracts, and the bottom of letters — not for praise, not for enthusiasm, not for a compliment on someone's code.
- Formal synonym: respectfully, faithfully, truly
- Casual synonym: really, honestly, genuinely
Genuinely overused sounds insecure. Sincerely overused sounds cold — or worse, sarcastic. Repeated formality reads as distance being maintained on purpose, and after a disagreement your reader will hear it that way whether you meant it or not. Once per message, at most.
✍️ The signature line. Sincerely belongs at the bottom of a letter, under a person's name — never in front of an object. If there's no human behind it, the word has nothing to certify.
The famous story that it comes from Latin sine cera, "without wax" — sculptors filling cracks in bad marble — is folk etymology. The real root is sincerus, "clean, whole, unadulterated." The wax image is still a good one to remember it by; just don't repeat it as fact.
Practice
1.Please accept my ___ apologies for the delay.
2.___, I have no idea why that fixed it.
3.The tool is ___ free — no card required.
4.I ___ doubt we'll finish before Friday.
5.Your letter opens “Dear Sir or Madam”. You're British. Sign off with:
- sincere — before the noun apologies, so you need the adjective.
- honestly — sincerely never opens a sentence in English; at the front it reads as a sign-off.
- genuinely — a price has no inner life. Sincerely needs a human subject.
- sincerely — before the verb doubt, the word's most common spoken home.
- Yours faithfully — no name in the greeting, so British convention takes faithfully. Yours sincerely is for named recipients; Sincerely yours is American.
